Wrightslaw - Advocacy Articles - Tactics & Strategies: How to Disagree with the IEP Team without Starting WW III by Pam and Pete Wright
Many parents have questions about what to do when they are presented with an IEP that is not appropriate for their child. You should advise the IEP team that you don’t think the IEP is appropriate, that it does not provide your child with enough help or the right kind of help. You should use facts to support your position (i.e., facts from an evaluation of your child from a private sector evaluator, graphs of your child's test scores). Be polite but firm. Tip: Think how Miss Manners handles difficult situations and use this idea to guide you.
